Gay ins
The Ins and Outs of Gay Sex: A Medical Handbook for Men
Finally--the guide for every gay man's bedside table.
At last! Answers to the questions you're too embarrassed to ask--but always wanted to know!
Why does it hurt down there? Is it really protected to do that? What does it mean when something looks like this--and how do I make it go away?
Chances are you never learned anything about gay intimacy from your parents, your school, or your family physician. Here, at last, is reliable, comprehensive information on a expansive spectrum of gay medical concerns, written by an eminent surgeon and commended authority on gay health issues.
With up-to-date facts, interviews, and case studies from the author's practice, The Ins and Outs of Gay Sex goes far beyond HIV concerns, combining a complete education about the safe and pleasurable practices of male-male sexuality with a comprehensive medical volume.
Here are the proof about what you desire to know to retain your sex life boiling and healthy, including:
The rules of safe anorectal stimulation.
Symptoms to send you running to the doctor.
Foreplay, sex toys, and other accessories.
Viral and nonviral STDs-don't arouse up with an unpl
Relationship Advice for Gay Couples: Boundaries, Vulnerability & Weekly Check-ins
Introduction
After a long season of tolerating major stressors, my husband and I stared to spiral a bit. In all of our busyness we started to neglect one another and it was our emotional needs that suffered the most. He had shutdown and I had resorted to anger. We were both resentful. I had, slowly over day, forgotten to implement the stabilizing techniques upon which our relationship was built. It was our shift for couples therapy. Regardless if your a seasoned therapist like me, in a 20 year bond, or a 2-month situationship, the following steps might just help you obtain your relationship up and running, but this occasion with a little more ease.
Step 1: Learn how to implement mature boundaries
LGBTQIA+ couples or polycules usually start their relationships, enjoy everyone else, with the need to negotiate unused boundaries. When we contain poor boundaries we are convinced that we can manage someone else’s comfort- and more so that our partner should be capable and willing to manage ours. A mature boundary system is enjoy a snow globe keeping our emotional temperature standardized no matter what hap
The Ins and Outs of Homophobia and Gay Men’s Experiences of Holding Hands in Public
For many LGBTQ people, who are in a same-sex relationship, holding hands with their partners in public is seldom a carefree and spontaneous act. Many LGBTQ people have reported fearing doable verbal and physical maltreatment from others for engaging in public displays of affection. This talk will explore the role of homophobia and internalised homophobia in gay men’s life of navigating the act of holding hands with their partners. The talk uses case studies, drawn from research data which was generated through Photovoice interviews and include verbal as adv as visual material. The analysis of the interview material follows a psychosocial approach, considering both the social dimensions of trial as well as drawing on psychoanalytic theory to consider the psychological dimensions. This talk will study some of the psychological struggles involved when negotiating internal and external barriers to holding hands.
Dr Poul Rohleder is a clinical psychologist and psychoanalytic psychotherapist, and member of the British Psychotherapy Foundation. He had